written by Scottlaroc
I think we all have had a T.O.N.Y. ( the other night why) as complex
people we tend to find love in hopeless places. Hooking up with a TONY usually
means that your going to have some type of regret, deep down inside you know
its wrong but the feeling feels so right. TONY's exist only because of emotions.
Emotions that don't exceed pass the current moment. Hooking up with a Tony means
you know the outcome, you know its not going to last as well as the
potential of you getting hurt, but you do it anyway because of the "
current" feelings he/she brings you. T.O.N.Y is love that's only
temporally its not lasting love, its love you crave at your most vulnerable
times. The times where you are waiting on love but become anxious and impatience
with loves slow delivery. If I had to characterize what a TONY would be,
it would be a bad boy , a free cage bird (party girl), a smooth operator
(smooth talker), a Ex or maybe a hood rat( what ever opposite you know you
should stay away from) Many of us have had experience with these types of individuals, the ones we know we shouldn't date, but date
anyway because of the feeling that
we know we are going to get, the satisfaction, even if its a short satisfaction.
We all want love, we all know how good the feeling is and sometimes we are
willing to risk our sanity chasing a TONY. Tony’s are not in it for the long
run, they are the moment seekers.
No matter how good you might think you two have it, Tony’s are not going
to stick around in the long hall.
There’s no need to talk commitment or relationship because Tony’s don’t
have the intention to be the poster child for what a committed relationship looks like. A Tony could also
be someone who you out grew but your just caught up in the moment of having and
loving someone. Once that Love Jones is gone and reality sits in, your asking
your self “ what the hell” did I get myself into. Its only human nature for
humans to want and feel some type of love even if it’s for a moment. A wise
person once told me that we were not meant to be by ourselves, this may be true
but just make sure you don't run true love off because your chasing the TONY's
of the world.
Solange T.O.N.Y
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